Everyone has different sources of stress in their lives and everyone responds differently to those stressors. For me, taking time to laugh, workout, talk, write, and rant to a friend etc. is how I deal with different types of stress. Sometimes though, self care can be challenging or awkward with my male roommates around. As a girl, I couldn’t possibly have any other reason to wear yoga pants or paint my toe nails for anything other than sexual intrigue, right? Okay! Let’s just get this straight asshole Justin, if I wanted to make sweat and yoga pants and/or the action of painting my toe nails into something purely sexual I’m pretty confident that I could, but a hundred percent of the time that I am doing those things I’m not. Ugh! End rant.
Alright, the actual reason I’m writing this post is because it has become apparent that I’m in some serious need of girl time. I feel I am surrounded by testosterone 24/7… oh wait I am. When I lived with my sister it was totally different and the only male in that house was my three year old nephew! Don’t get me wrong, I’ve come to enjoy some of the aspects of being “one of the guys”, but not all of them and I know they wouldn’t enjoy talking about hair and beauty care or let me paint their nails, although I’m sure I could black mail them into it. The point I’m really trying to get out is that I need to have actual girl time to relate about girl things and I came to this realization after I had an interaction with one of Justin’s my roommate’s… um, overnight escorts. Here’s what happened.
I got up super early, which is pretty normal, with the intention of making a pot of coffee. Takes a couple minutes tops. Because the entire house was still asleep I figured I didn’t need to get “dressed” so I just walked into the communal living space and into the kitchen still in my underwear. (You all do it don’t deny it!) When I got into the kitchen I noticed a pot of coffee was freshly made?! The thought that one of my roommates was free-roaming the house at this hour while I was partially nude made me want to impulsively run back to the safety of my room! As I turned around I saw this girl sitting at the kitchen table sipping at a cup of coffee; still in her underwear too!!! She waves nervously, but gives me this look like “who did you sleep with last night?” My boyfriend thanks for asking! It didn’t happen that way though.
Soooo here it is, two half naked girls in the low light of the early morning chatting over coffee. I’m not even sure how long we were chatting for, it must have been well over an hour. After I had explained that I live here the awkwardness quickly dissipated and we started talking about normal things that didn’t involve cars and/or sports. She must have needed the chat as much as I did because both of us failed to notice that the entire house had risen like the walking dead and congregated at the kitchen entrance. Oh crap is right! For the boys that is! They just interrupted our girl chat and there were some hard consequences to be had. Nothing like fire in the eyes and a couple of base ball bats to part the red sea. Trust me, it worked like a charm. We had claimed our territory in the name of woman hood and it was a no boys allowed club! At least for another hour that is, haha.
Yep, so that happened. XD
I’m always open to advice! What are your thoughts? Time to schedule a visit with my sister I think.
Thank you for reading! Please check out what happened last time with my roommates and their maid service if you happened to miss it! ❤ Go here ❤
Wow forget about girl time. These guys must feel like they died and went to heaven.
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They were about to die if they didn’t get out of our bubble! 🙂
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Yes but they would have died with smiles 😋 on their faces!
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HAHA! truth 😛
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That is so funny. I love having girl time. Bonding over coffee is nice as well. I hope the asshole/roommate/Justin keeps this one around.
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Same!!!! On all accounts! I do hope he hooks up with her again.
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Oh gosh, really not much in the way of advice…if you live in a house of men, girl time is going to be few and far between. If you want it, looks like you will have to seek it out. You are lucky to have a sister!!
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It’s just really weird how the male brain works. I have a second job for the college I do online. With both my jobs, my blog, and my TV viewing (I do a lot of it on my laptop) I’m pretty sure my roommates (excluding my boyfriend) believe I’m some sort of internet porn star… and the Google searches begin 😛
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Weird how the male brain works…oh tell me about it!! I’m raising a (now 12) year old boy. All of a sudden he comes out with something and I think…how did this happen?? And he’s not even really into girl’s yet!! Internet porn indeed!
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LOL it’s everywhere, we just can’t escape it! In general for me sex is an easy topic to discuss; however, explaining it to a child… um… I’ve got nothing! XD
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I gave mine books!!
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I’ve been known to let female friends do my hair, makeup & nails. Too bad for you! :p
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Hahaha! Awesome! It’s a lot of fun! Maybe I’ll wait till their passed out and do it in their sleep 3:)
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That is so funny that you just had some unscheduled girl time. Let the dudes be uncomfortable for once! Yeah you need to have the girls over, maybe not just your sister but some others and take back some of the femaleness in your house! I’ve had the opposite situation in my house for a while, until my son was born so, I kind of know how you feel?
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Yes. It needs to happen and soon!!! Haha, gotta put you boys in your place! 😉
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The girls are always putting me in my place.
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😀
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I thought you would like that. Did you ever get some sister time?
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Not really. We talk on the phone, but my schedule is so crazy I haven’t gotten to physically see her yet.
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Girl time is the best where you can just talk about all or nothing, too bad that you don’t get enough girl time even though it can be nice with guys too (sometimes hihi)! I’m here if you ever want to chat ❤ Have a great weekend!
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Yes it can be with guys… sometimes 😛 Thanks Nad! I will mostly definitely need your girl services! 🙂 haha, Hope you had a great weekend! ❤
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Oh you’re most welcome to talk about anything! I’m a good listener and a talker haha ^^ My weekend was good didn’t do much! What about you?
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I worked for half of it, haha. I think I’ve become addicted to work 😛 My boyfriend and I took apart the dryer because I was complaining that it takes 2 cycle runs to dry a load and it’s been driving me nuts. Not time efficient at all! So we took it apart and OMG there was so much crap inside the compartments. Not just dust, dirt, and lint, but also beads, screws, and nails!!! like wtf right? Now that it’s been clean it works like new. It was a pain to do, but my laundry life it good, lol. 😉
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Haha time for some spring cleaning maybe? haha you need some time off and just relax!!! Don’t stress out too much! ❤
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Oh all my cleaning is already done. As for my roommates… not so much. 😛 Relax? What’s that? Haha! ❤
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Haha I know what you mean girl haha ^^ ❤
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Sigh*… the struggles.
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Did you have a great weekend? ❤
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I did! I spent Mother’s Day with my mom and sister. Just an absolute beautiful day! Hope you had a great weekend too! Sorry I haven’t been on lately been having computer issues!
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Aaw that sounds lovely. So you met ur nephew? Yeah we had amazing weather but we celebrate mothers day later in Sweden than rest of the world. Don’t know why though hahaha. Oh no worries! Miss you ❤
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Haven’t seen his silly butt in months! It was nice to see his hyperactive self! Oh interesting! I wonder why that is? Certainly it’s not a holiday the entire world celebrate… although they should! ❤
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I bet you miss him 🙂 Yeah Sweden have to be one of those countries who likes to stand out haha! Have a great day ❤
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Hehe. Make a splash. It’s pool time! Thanks Nad! It’s been a while, but I hope you had a great day too!
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